Leave everything and work upon yourself.

इसका कोई एन्ड नहीं है यार। ये बातें ऐसे ही होती रहेंगी, पहले भी यही होता आया है अब भी यही होगा।

ये लेबल करने की टेंडेंसी है न सबमे :

क्या कर रहे हो ?

कहाँ से?

कितना?

बोहोत बढ़िया. ..... असली एनालिस्ट तो ये हैं इन्हें पता होता है कब हमारी सैलरी कितनी होजायेगी। .... इन्हें अच्छे से ये भी पता है क्या ठीक है क्या नहीं

और एक मैं झंडू राम हूँ

साला इंटरवयू में , 'टेल मी समथिंग अबाउट योरसेल्फ?' पे ऐसे होजाता हूँ जैसे ये पूछ लिया हो की २३३३८७५९५ की गुना ८७९४२४५९ करने पे क्या परिणाम मिलेगा ?

[Yet another blog which was there in the drafts section maybe I have thought to re-work on them all. For ref. today is 25th February 2018. And this blog was attempted in March 2017.]

This is what my friend said when we met last year. I do not know the exact trigger to this conversation but I do know that that was the time when he was attending to many interviews and he, as you can infer from his angry blabber, is furious at that particular moment when interviewer asks you about yourself.

I sometimes rummage on this thought but I do not know myself any better way to continue an interview, having interviewed a host of people myself for the organisation where I work as a technical content writer, I interviewed a bunch of students and the first thing is that you want to know a person. But that's the paradox, even the person wants to know him or herself, at least we do need to. And it's funny how you describe yourself in the interview.

From my experiences, I recall that in an interview I don't know how but all I described in the interview was my love for my birthdate, 09/03/1993 because it has 3, 6 and 9, which happen to be Tesla's magical numbers. Ha Ha Ha.

I know not, how do you carry on with any interview but I guess that's not what we're targetting to learn from the blabbering in the beginning of the blog. The question is, our existence. 

Yes, it's the existential crisis which my friend is pointing at and also the authoritative nature of our near and dear ones who are eager to choose our career on our behalf and leave alone the neighbourhood who works like an investigating regime willing to learn anything which is happening in our lives, in very minute details.

Even I do not know myself completely. And I cannot even stress if one can know oneself fully. But one can be in touch with oneself by giving more time to oneself. And that's what I think you must do in order to learn more about yourself. And when you work on yourself every other distractions like neighbourhood, agony aunts and forever guiding uncles will vanish, and I bet it helps.